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What Do I Do If He or She is Unfaithful?
Of course, the first reaction is to walk out the door, without question!
However let’s think about this. Why are they being unfaithful?
Is he a womanizer and a player, or she’s an outrageous flirt with no consideration for you feelings, if so maybe you don’t really want to be with them!
Was someone else flirting with him or her and they made one mistake.
Can you forgive him or her, without bringing it up every day for the next 5 years?
Are things not too good in your relationship?
Has his or her unfaithfulness uncovered a problem that needs to be addressed? Can you repair your relationship with this knowledge by communicating rationally and make it even better?
Has he or she admitted it to you first hand in the hope that you can both mend the pieces?
Is he or she in love with the other person or is it just sexual. If they are in love, you have problems, if it’s purely sexual your problems are not as bad.
Is it payback for something you have done in the past?
Is it rumor or fact? Be careful not to jump to conclusions
These are some of the questions to ask yourself if you are ever faced with infidelity!
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